{"id":1293,"date":"2019-10-31T10:02:08","date_gmt":"2019-10-31T14:02:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ourhouse.ilearnedthehardway.com\/wordpress\/?p=1293"},"modified":"2019-10-31T10:02:08","modified_gmt":"2019-10-31T14:02:08","slug":"mothers-tree","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ourhouse.ilearnedthehardway.com\/?p=1293","title":{"rendered":"mother&#8217;s tree"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There have been a lull in my postings over the years.  The biggest one was right after the front porch was &#8216;covered&#8217; but before it was &#8216;finished&#8217; and screened in.  Part of that was because of all of the things that I needed to deal with my mom&#8217;s passing and everything that lead up to it&#8230;so I may not have added this tid-bit!  I may have to go back and see, but I don&#8217;t remember making this public.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>My mother passed away on April 13, 2016 from Melanoma. We were all there when she left this world&#8230;it&#8217;s been 3+ years and it still feels like it was yesterday and I miss her like crazy!  But anyway&#8230;mother&#8217;s tree!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The first Mother&#8217;s Day after her passing&#8230;I barely remember, but 1 year  later on Mother&#8217;s Day 2017, I really wanted to do something with some of her ashes and our front yard needed a tree where one of the Holly Trees was when I bought the house.  So Jen and I set out to find a maple tree that was perfect and we ended up driving all over the county looking for that tree&#8230;Baltimore Pike <a href=\"https:\/\/hillsidenurserypa.com\/\">Hillside Nursery,<\/a>  then to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mostardi.com\/\">Mostardis<\/a> and then eventually <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wedgewoodgardens.com\/\">Wedgewood Gardens<\/a>, where we found our Thunder Cloud Plum Tree. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Over the years, I had planted a couple maple trees, the first one was probably too small when I planted it and the second one, well, turns out I over-fertilized it.  So I wasn&#8217;t sure anything would take there!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/ourhouse.ilearnedthehardway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/IMG_4826-e1572308150476-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1296\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ourhouse.ilearnedthehardway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/IMG_4826-e1572308150476-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/ourhouse.ilearnedthehardway.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/IMG_4826-e1572308150476-225x300.jpg 225w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I mixed some of mom&#8217;s ashes in the dirt hoping that would help it take&#8230;and it makes it literally Mother&#8217;s Tree!  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This past spring it gave us fruit&#8230;well, 1 cherry sized plum. 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